Most people move through life without never clearly understand what they really want for their lives; they think they want marriage, after marriage they realize it’s not actually marriage they really wanted, they think they want that but only to realize that it’s not that which they wanted. Such a problem is not caused outside them, it’s caused from within.
Simply they don’t know what they want from within themselves, so what is outside them automatically takes over to control them. That’s why it’s very important to know thyself, because you will know what you want for your life and live the life you want. The problem in this world is that, most people are not themselves, their others.
“Life is a choice, if you don’t make a choice to mind your own life business; you have made a choice to mind other people’s life businesses”
Most people who don’t know what they want for their life, and they don’t know that the solution is always within themselves. People, who don’t know what they really want in life, 90% follow what others tell them to have, not what they really want themselves from their own thoughts. “If you don’t set goals for yourself, you are doomed to work to achieve the goals of someone else”, said Brain Tracy.
For sure, many people have become robots for their families, employers, friends, governments, schools, religion etc. They want what others think they should want, what their children think they should want and become, what their employer thinks they should do and be, what their community think they should do and become, what their religion or church thinks they should do and become, and not what themselves really want to do and become for their own life.
The most important step to create a good life for yourself is to define what you really want to do and become for your life, what really comes from your heart, not what others want you to do and become.
Note That: Those who say only God knows what I want or only God knows my future mostly are ignorant and less responsible people in this world.
The most stupid thing in life is to be on earth without knowing what you want or why you are here, or to get married or marrying without knowing why you are going into marriage, or going into business without understanding why you are going into that business. You must always know what you want with your life, if you don’t? You are a trouble.
And becoming rich is beyond money, but most people think it’s having more money that they really want for their life, but that is not so! Many people want themselves, but look in the wrong place for themselves. Know yourself and you will win all battles. What we need to do is to find out our purpose, our talents, our reason we are here on this earth; you have been given a talent is to use it to serve mankind for better, if you want you can even build a business around your talent as long as you put your talent to serve people.
Remember that money is the harvest of our production and service; therefore change your focus from making money to using your talent to serving more people. “Serving more people makes that money come in” said Robert Kiyosaki.
“Define success on your own terms, achieve it by your own rules, and build a life you’re proud to live” – Anne Sweeney,
The author of 7 habits of highly effective people, Dr. Stephen Covey put it clear here that; “Most people struggle with life balance simply because they haven’t paid the price to decide what is really important to them”. If you want to become in control of your life first know thyself, know want you want for your life, third set your own aims and time which. Therefore, know what you want with your life and that no one else can tell you what you want but only you yourself, it’s already within you, you were already born with it already; just look within yourself. Remember the tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die inside of us while we live. Bring all your wants to life.