A smart man can always tell the difference between a woman who means business and a woman who came for business. The first is relational. She wants to get to know you and be with you. The latter is transactional. She just wants what you have. The former came to add to you.
The latter is interested in just what she can get. The former doesn’t mind making sacrifices for you. The latter only moves when there is something in it for her. The former cares about your needs. The latter cares about your gifts. The former serves you with joy. The latter serves you with an agenda. The former is driven by your future. The latter is driven by your fortune. Which woman are you with?