And it’s true, once you become fully responsible of your life,that’s the moment you pass from childhood to adult hood as author John C. Maxwell said; “The greatest day in your life and mine is when we take total responsibility for our attitudes. That’s the day we truly grow up”.
I think that’s why people who are not fully responsible for their own lives depend so much on their jobs, spouse, religion, employer or the government to make a living for them, instead of them creating their own living and contribute their own cause in order to progress the economy of their communities forward. And most of these people are the same ones who blame others for what happens for them, complain about what happens to them instead of taking responsibility and do something about what happens to them. It’s only a person, who is fully responsible of their own life who takes full responsibility of what happens to them, than blame it on others.
It’s high time you and me became adults, and start contributing than being contributed by others, start creating than being created by others, become fully responsible and in control of our lives and what happens to us, than the government or someone outside ourselves controlling of our life and what happens to us when we are even capable of controlling our lives.
It’s high time we started planning our future wisely than depending our future in the hands of a job, government, religion, family or to chance, moreover nothing happens by chance, chance is always created and always created by what you do today, now. James Sun said; “If you don’t try and expect the extraordinary, expect failure or mediocre results.” Mr. Bob Proctor also said; “To ignore the power of paradigms to influence your judgment, is to put yourself at risk when exploring the future.”
It’s the people who become fully responsible of their own lives, responsible for what happens to them and take that responsibility to create a better change for themselves and others who become very successful in life, and not the runaway people. Frank Crane put it this way; “Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber”.
Remember no one out there owes you a living or anything; you must go out to claim it. You must go out there and earn it. In truth we are the ones who owe the world, that’s why we must go out there and give out what we owe to the world, we not born on this earth for nothing, we are here for a reason, and that reason is what you must find and utilize it in reality. “Successful people have a social responsibility to make the world a better place and not just take it”, Said Carrie Underwood.
To become a grown up, take full responsibility of your own life, because maturity does not come by age, it comes by taking full responsibility of your life, and whatever happens to your life, and around your life, meaning taking care of your world wisely.