Success comes with control and that control is taking full responsibility of your own mind.
You have to become in full control of your own mind if you want to live the life you want, not the life others tell you to want. Imagining the beautiful of the life one ‘Wants’ is what motivates one to ‘Decide’ and take action to go for that life he or she ‘Wants’ to experience.
You can have or become anything you want in life, but it depends with the type of Wants you want if their positive or negative or if the process you are using is positive or negative. You can have positive ‘Wants’ but if you use a negative process to get to those ‘Wants’, you will get the negative wants too; if not yet it’s just a matter of time that will happen to you. You reap what you have sown.
Positive Wants are what makes people successful, and that comes from asking yourself what you really want, that life you really want live, the things you really want to have, to write down your wants, and Decide and take Action to go for that life you truly Want to live, and those things you really want will come.
“If you action the day, that day will come”
You don’t need to know everything or know every root that will take you there to begin, just begin with whatever tools you have and the better tools will be found along the way. It’s trying to know everything about the whole journey to achieve one’s dream that stops most people from achieving their dreams and never begin at all.
“It is not possible to discover new oceans unless one is willing to lose sight of the share” said Lord Chesterfield. Most people fail to achieve their dreams simply because they want everything to be perfect to begin. Remember things will never be perfect to begin, just begin as they are. Perfection is an enemy of the journey to success. Just take action and your action will open more doors to take you or bring to you what to achieve. It’s taking action on your ideal ‘wants’ that will begin attracting the ideas and people who will help you achieve your dreams. “Do not wait; the time will never be ‘just right’ just begin now. Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along” said Napoleon, American author and motivational author, 1883 – 1970.
What Stops People From Living The Life They Want
Have you ever noticed that people who get ahead in this life are dynamic people? They don’t lie on the couch waiting for the perfect time to start doing something. They get up and begin doing it.
The reason why most people don’t get what they really want is either they wait for the right time, they don’t know what they want, they doubt what they want, they don’t want to pay the full price for what they want, have not decided to take action for what they want, and fear what they want often because it’s beyond the results they have never achieved in life. But if you truly know what you want, you can have it, if you just decide to go for it and never let critics, doubts, excuses, lack of faith in yourself, lack of money, fear of losing what they already have nor just fear of failure, fear being seeing different from others is what stops and has stopped most people not to achieve they life they really want or really wanted. Just do what you can to overcome such odds, and what you can will open more doors for you. If you know what you want, just never let these above overcome your desires for the life you want.
If you know what you want, just take action and also be willing to let anything happen but not letting anything stop you from going for the life you want. Anything can happen but never let it stop you. Sometimes life presents things that we have no idea about, that can be negative, but make them push you forward for what you want.
Don’t let the rode in the road stop from reaching your dreams. Your plan to your wants might not always work as you have planned; just change your plan but not your wants if you know and truly desire to achieve what you want.