The only way to become a self programmer of your own life is to find out what you really want for your life, not what others tell you to want and live for your life, but only you yourself to decide what you really want for your life. The greatest tragedy of life is that some people don’t know what they want for their lives and are not even living their own lives either.
Most people are living lives programmed in them mostly from childhood by their religions, friends, families, governments, schools and employers when they get a job; which actually is not their own life, but someone else’s life who created such organizations mentioned above.
As said, the way to become a programmer of your own life is to first;
- Know what you want for your life.
- Take full control of your mind.
- Start living the life you want (set goals and take action)
- Take full responsibility of what happens with your life, never blame others.
- Keep living your own thoughts.
The key important issue here is to first to know what you want with your life and take control of your own mind, then you will begin to program your own life with what you want; and the critical fun part is you will even begin to control others mostly those who are not in full control of their own lives through your own visions, goals or businesses; religion is doing this.
The reason why the famous big entrepreneurs like Bill Gates, Richard Branson, Aliko Dangonte etc, control many people through their visions or businesses is because they begun by taking control of their own minds, thoughts first, as Lao Tzu put it this way “‘Know thyself and you will win all battles’ and ‘Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power. If you realize that you have enough, you are truly rich’”. It all begins with you.
Cotton said that “Those who have finished by making all others think with them have usually been those who begun by daring to think for themselves”. The key here is that if you cannot control your mind, you cannot control your life, and you will be controlled by others who are already in control of their lives.
Therefore, to lead, help, serve other people, or to become your own mind robot programmer, you must first learn to lead, help, serve and program your own mind. It all begins with you yourself.
“Your first and foremost job as a leader is to take charge of your own energy and then help to orchestrate the energy of those around you” – Peter Druker