Many people think association is cheap, well in thinking. But if they is one thing that is very expensive to give and to receive, its association, whether you are poor or rich, and the reason why is, it COSTS your LIFE.
Fact is, even if you have no money, or no any other material around you to use, your association with others is and will always be there; simply because association is spiritual, you can’t physically touch it, but you can spiritually feel it.
The advice you ask or receive each day that comes, that’s all association; that’s why you must mind wisely where you get advice from, because you become the advice accept. Association is spiritual.
The business, the marriage or courtship you are into today, the job you have, who you have become today and who you will become tomorrow, it’s all the cause of association, that’s why I said, association is expensive because it costs your life, your time, and how you spend your time is what is the most top and the first important thing of all important things you spend your time on, in this life. Your time is your life and if you do not spend it on things or activates that must enrich your life, its wasted time forever.
To be poor it’s all because of association. To be rich it’s all because of association. Association is expensive, it’s your door to any success you want, spend it wisely.
REASONS TO HAVE RIGHT ASSOCIATES AROUND YOU
A poor person marries a poor minded person; that’s why this marriage struggles financially. A rich person marries a rich minded person; that’s why this marriage enjoys financial freely lifestyle. This is all the result of association, who you marry, is your lifetime reflection of your lifestyle.
A poor person associates with poor minded people. A successful person associates with successful minded people. Choose your associates wisely.
A poor person thinks small. A rich person thinks big. A poor person associates with small thinkers. A rich person associates with big thinkers. Who do you spend most of your time with; you are the reflection of that person.
A poor person associates with problem blamers and complainers. A successful person associates with problem solvers and solutions shares. Choose wisely who you spend your time with.
A poor person’s child associate with other poor people’s kids just like their parents do. A successful person’s child associates with other successful people’s kids just like their parents do. What picture are your kids seeing you to the public side of your life? Remember this, your kids do not listen and do your advice, your kids see and do your actions. It’s what you do, not what you say, that’s what makes a huge difference to your kids mindset and lifestyle.
This is truth, you become the people you associate with, the people you spend most your time with, and these people can be your spouse, drinking friends, classmates, workmates, sports mates, business mates or church mates, the truth of the matter is, you end up becoming what they do most times too. If those people have poor habits, you also end up with those poor habits too; so is the opposite.
“Association is contagious; you will always end up with the behavior of those you associate with” – Maradona Chalwe