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Stop Complicating Your Life, Just Focus on What You Want – Maradona Chalwe

by Maradona Chalwe

Life is simple; you don’t like me, forget about me – I don’t like you, forget about you. The problem is we create a hell around our lives by focusing on people we hate and we wonder why our lives are always ugly. We spend hours, days and months, years hating things we can’t change or control; and at the end of the day what do we achieve? Get to achieve and get to have more of what we hate. Ugliness is a lifestyle for some people.

If you focus on people you hate, you will keep on having more people to hate. If you keep on focusing on things you can’t control, you will keep on having more things you can’t control. And this is one of the reasons why many can’t and will not become successful with their lives.

Many focus on what they hate; they have a job they hate, also hate successful people, they talk bad about successful people, others date and marry people they hate – in the end that hate compounds and become their way of life. Ugliness is a lifestyle for some people.

Have you noticed why and how successful people are? It’s just a matter of focus, they focus on their dreams, on who they want to become and what they want to happen to them, and more importantly on what they can and have control at. If you have a problem, you don’t focus on the problem no; you focus on the solution, on how you are going to solve that problem. If you want a baby, you focus on how you going to get a man or your man to impregnate you, and not how a man can’t impregnate you. If you want to win a girls heart, you don’t focus on girls who have left you, no; you focus on how to get that girl you want.

Life is simple; we just complicate it by where we focus our minds on. Mind you focus is not cheap; it’s expensive. Your focus is your life and what you focus your mind on is what your life becomes.

Fact is, if you want to accomplish anything you want, your focus will determine that. Some ideas or dreams may take years to be achieved, and if your focus isn’t intact enough, you will never going to achieve that dream; so be focused enough so to achieve that long-term goal.

If you want a successful life, focus on what will take you to and make you successful. If you want love, you don’t go round hating people, no – you go round loving and giving love. You cannot get what you want by focusing on what you don’t want. So stop complicating yourself, things and your life by focusing on what you don’t want, and start focusing on what you want to happen to you.

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